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DAY 12

〜tai — Saying what you want

Why this matters

At a Niseko job, if you can't put your wishes into words, you lose out. Politely saying "I want to leave early" or "please teach me to ski" is what gets people to help you.

01

Today's goals

  • ✓〜たいです で自分の希望を言える
  • ✓〜たくないです で丁寧に断れる
  • ✓〜てもらいたい で頼みごとができる
  • ✓強すぎず弱すぎない希望の言い方を選べる
02

How it works

Attach 〜たい to the stem of a 〜ます verb to say "I want to ...":

  • ·食べます → 食べたいです (I want to eat)
  • ·行きます → 行きたいです (I want to go)
  • ·休みます → 休みたいです (I want to rest)

For negative, use 〜たくないです (I don't want to): 働きたくないです = I don't want to work.

〜たい is personal. You can only use it for your own desires. For someone else's, use 〜たがっています (he/she seems to want to), but at N5 you'll mostly stick to asking rather than reporting.

Asking a favor politely:

  • ·〜てもらいたいです = I want you to ... (soft, polite)

- スキーを教えてもらいたいです。 — I want you to teach me to ski.

  • ·Even softer: 〜ていただきたいです (humble form, service register)

In a Niseko workplace, raw 〜たい sounds a bit blunt to a boss. Add 〜んですが… at the end to leave room for the other side: 早く帰りたいんですが… lets the manager suggest a solution without you asking directly.

03

Words & patterns

vocab教えるおしえるoshieru

to teach / to tell

vocab覚えるおぼえるoboeru

to memorize / to learn

vocab早くはやくhayaku

early / fast

vocab休むやすむyasumu

to rest / to take off

vocab話すはなすhanasu

to speak / to talk

vocab〜んですが~ndesuga

softener ending ('I was wondering if…')

grammar〜たいです~taidesu

I want to ... — personal desire.

  • 日本語を覚えたいです。
    nihongowooboetaidesu.
    — I want to learn Japanese.
  • 今日は、早く帰りたいです。
    kyōwa,hayakukaeritaidesu.
    — Today, I want to go home early.
grammar〜てもらいたいです~temoraitaidesu

I want you to ... — polite request for someone to do something for you.

  • スキーを教えてもらいたいです。
    sukīwooshietemoraitaidesu.
    — I want you to teach me to ski.
  • 明日、少し早く帰らせてもらいたいんですが…
    ashita,sukoshihayakukaerasetemoraitaindesuga…
    — I was wondering if I could leave a bit early tomorrow…
dialogueスタッフルームで、マネージャーに希望を伝える

Telling a manager your wishes in the staff room

A山田さん、今度、スキーを教えてもらいたいんですが…
yamadasan,kondo,sukīwooshietemoraitaindesuga…
— Yamada-san, I was hoping you could teach me to ski sometime…
Bいいですよ。いつがいいですか。
īdesuyo.itsugaīdesuka.
— Sure. When works?
A来週の火曜日は、休みです。
raishūnokayōbiwa,yasumidesu.
— I'm off next Tuesday.
Bじゃあ、火曜日の朝10時に、ヒラフの第1リフトで会いましょう。
jā,kayōbinoasajūjini,hirafunodaīchirifutodeaimashō.
— Then let's meet Tuesday at 10 a.m. at Hirafu's first lift.
04

Drills

Q01translate_x2ja

Translate: 'I want to drink water.'

Q02pick

You want to tell your manager you'd like to leave early tomorrow. Which is the most natural?

Q03reorder

Make a sentence: 教えて / スキー / もらいたい / を / です

Q04translate_ja2x

今日は、休みたくないです。

Q05output_free

Tell your Japanese coworker one thing you want to learn and one thing you want them to teach you. 2 lines.

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Common pitfalls

Using 〜たい directly with a boss ('早く帰りたいです。')
CAUSE Literal translation of 'I want to'
FIX Add 〜んですが… at the end to soften: 早く帰りたいんですが… — it lets the manager respond without you demanding.
Saying 'he wants to go' as 行きたいです (he)
CAUSE 〜たい feels like a neutral verb to an English speaker
FIX 〜たい is for your own desire only. For others, use 〜たがっています, or just ask them directly.
Asking a favor with the plain command: 教えてください
CAUSE ください works, but can be flat with a senior
FIX 〜てもらいたいんですが… is softer and more respectful, especially for a one-off ask.
Tomorrow

Tomorrow: phone basics — もしもし, taking a reservation, transferring to the manager.